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Most of us
know that Down syndrome is a genetic disease. Most of us know that
people with Down syndrome are mentally disabled; that a lot of other
health problems go along with their condition; and that their disability
can’t be fixed or cured. But many of us, I think, don’t really
like to dwell too long on the sick and disabled because we don’t
know what to do about them. Their burdens make us uneasy. All
of us are imperfect, but persons with a handicap like Down syndrome
can’t hide it. They have the flaw built right into their blueprint,
right into their chromosomes. Which is why the most common “treatment”
doctors prescribe for unborn children with this disease is abortion.
My friend once
told me that loving Andy isn’t the hard part. In fact, loving Andy
is very easy, and caring for him comes along naturally with the
love, so the family just adjusts to Andy’s problems and moves on
with daily life.
But
what’s hard sometimes is loving God. What’s hard sometimes is trusting
that Andy’s life has a meaning; that his life isn’t a mistake; that
his burdens aren’t a punishment for his parents’ past sins, or a
really cruel joke.
Therese and
her husband have built their careers on the ability to communicate
well. That’s what they do for a living. But at 10, Andy still
has trouble speaking very simple sentences. Half the time, they
can’t understand a word he says. So at night, in the dark, what
his parents worry about is: Will Andy ever have a job? Will he
ever be able to live on his own? And who will protect him and love
him when they’re gone?
I wanted to
begin tonight with the example of Andy and his parents because our
theme for this evening is “Our labor in the Lord is not in vain.”
And that isn’t always obvious, is it. Too often our labor does
seem to be in vain. Religion is easy when the sun’s out. But we
find out who we really are when our child has an extra chromosome,
or our spouse leaves us for somebody at work, or everything we do
to get a young man off the streets and out of prostitution seems
to have no effect at all. We find out what we really believe when
we ask, “Is our labor in vain?,” and God seems to be silent -- and
in His silence, He makes us choose the answer for ourselves.
Sooner or later
in every life, people come to a fork in the road. And when the
road splits, it leads to two very different destinations -- two
opposite explanations of what life means. Augustine talked about
the City of God and the City of Man. John Bunyan wrote about the
Celestial City and the City of Destruction. But each of us, at
some point, comes to a similar place of testing or crisis where
we face the same choice between yearning and struggling for the
good we can’t see -- or settling for the satisfactions we can see,
here and now.
We become what
we choose. That was true when Bunyan wrote The Pilgrim’s Progress
more than 300 years ago, and it’s equally true today. But when
Bunyan talked about the luxuries and comforts of the town he called
“Vanity,” and all the marvels of the wonderful Fair within it, he
was inventing the place as part of his story. He was imagining
Vanity Fair as a trap for his pilgrim. Today I sometimes wonder
if we’re living in the middle of that trap.
Like all of
us here tonight, I love my country. I believe that America is a
great nation, Americans are a good people, and I think this was
reaffirmed in some of the election results on Tuesday. At its best,
our country remains a great experiment in human dignity. But the
experiment depends on certain assumptions -- and the first assumption
among them is the sanctity of the human person.
“Sanctity"
is an idea that makes no sense without God. And the more we remove
God from our public life, the more we undermine the moral vocabulary
that gives our public institutions meaning. The more secular we
become, the more we aggravate four key problems that are killing
us as a community.
Here’s the
first problem: our inability to think clearly. Reasoning
requires time. It demands a reverence for ideas, and the testing
and comparison of arguments. But the America we have today is a
culture built on marketing -- and marketing works in exactly the
opposite way.
Marketing appeals
to our appetites. It depends on suppressing our critical thought,
because people who think clearly and carefully may not buy the product
or believe the message. That explains why marketing is tied so
tightly to images. Images operate underneath the radar of our critical
thought. And that's also why car dealers usually put an attractive
young woman in front of their latest sports car, rather than a stack
of performance statistics.
This is a serious
issue. The average American child watches more than 500,000 television
commercials between the ages of 3 and 18. That’s up to 9,000 hours
of advertising, not including radio and magazines, and it amounts
to a university education in greed, self-absorption and impossible
expectations. In the name of serving consumers, we’ve permanently
addicted consumers to a river of new goods and services. We now
have millions of people who live artificially restless and dissatisfied
lives -- and our economy depends on keeping them that way.
Calvin Coolidge
once described advertising as “the method by which the desire is
created for better things” – whether people need them or not. And
so we buy more things and go deeper into debt, and then work harder
to buy more things and service a bigger debt. This has huge consequences
for the interior life of individuals, marriages, families and all
of our institutions. We don’t allow ourselves to think through
the logic of our own economic machinery, because we don’t want to
deal with the burdens of reforming the way we live.
Here’s the
second problem: our inability to remember. Americans have
a fascination with the new. We’re a people of the “now."
We enjoy nostalgia as a kind of entertainment. But we don’t really
like history because the past -- as it really happened -- burdens
us with memories and unfinished business. It imposes obligations
on the present. Americans like to think that we can invent and
reinvent ourselves. But the cost of that illusion is that we tend
to have a very poor grasp of history. We learn too little from
the lessons of the past, and sometimes too late, and that includes
the lessons of Scripture.
Here’s problem
three: our inability to imagine and hope. Americans have
never been an ideological people. We’re practical and flexible.
We’re toolmakers. We believe in results. So it’s really no surprise
that we have the strongest economic machine in the world; or that
we excel at science and technology; or that these disciplines enjoy
such esteem in our culture.
But technology
always carries with it a “revenge of unintended consequences."
And one of the unintended consequences of our science is that we've
become its objects and its victims. The price tag for our science
has been a decline in our understanding of the soul, a rise in a
materialist view of the world, and an erosion in our sense that
humanity is somehow unique in creation. Hope and imagination flow
out of a belief in a higher purpose to our lives. If all we are
is very intelligent carbon -- well, then hope and imagination are
just quirks of the species. And so is any talk about the sanctity
of the human person.
Here's problem
four: our inability to recognize and live real freedom.
Freedom is not just an endless supply of choices. Choice for its
own sake is just another form of idolatry, and tolerating evil choices
is not a virtue. It’s not an acceptable choice to kill an unborn
child, no matter what the genetic problems. It’s not an acceptable
choice for men and women made in the image of God to prostitute
themselves on the street. These choices debase not just the individual
person, but also the society that tolerates the behavior.
Freedom is
the ability to see -- and the courage to do -- what is right. But
if Americans stop believing that absolute principles of right and
wrong exist, then how can we even begin to discuss things like freedom,
truth and the dignity of the human person, in a common vocabulary?
How can we ever agree on which rights take precedence in the public
square, or who has responsibility for what?
What we get
in place of freedom is a kind of anarchy of conflicting pressure
groups and personal agendas. These are held together by just one
fragile thing: the economy we all share . . . and that’s never the
basis of a community. In fact our economy, more than anything else
in American life, teaches us to see almost everything as a commodity
to be bought or sold.
This is what
Jeremy Rifkin means when he describes American culture as more and
more a “paid-for experience” based on the commodification of passion,
ideals, relationships and even time. If we want freedom, we buy
it by purchasing this car or that computer. If we want romance,
we buy it by purchasing this cruise or that hotel package.
And this can
lead to some very strange products. On Sunday, as I was pulling
my thoughts together for tonight, I came a across a story in the
Denver Post with the headline, “Loved ones can shine for
eternity.” For prices starting at about $4,000, a company called
Life Gems will now harvest the carbon from the cremated remains
of your loved ones and press them into blue, yellow or red diamonds
– and of course, cut and polish them to order.
This isn’t
a joke. The Life Gems web site already logs about 45,000 hits a
day. The company founder said his product is “about celebrating
the life of a loved one,” whether human or pet. He added that,
“this is about a new beginning and a new way to keep the memory
of a lost one near and dear.” Of course, no matter how hard I try;
I can’t quite imagine anyone’s parents as matching cufflinks --
or why anyone would want to remember them that way.
We become
what we choose. Jesus told us that what we really treasure,
that’s where we put our hearts. And too much of daily life in America
in 2002 involves treasuring the wrong things. The more our advertising
misuses the language of our dreams and ideals to sell consumer goods,
to flatter our appetites and to disguise our responsibilities to
the suffering and the poor . . . the more mixed up our dreams and
ideals become. We confuse ourselves to the point where we no longer
recognize what real love, honest work, freedom, friendship, compassion,
family, community, patriotism – and the meaning of life itself --
look like.
We create a
void in our hearts that we try harder and harder to fill with material
things, which never really do fill that emptiness. The more we
have, the more we fear losing what we have. And this leads us deeper
and deeper into futility, no matter how much we own or how frantically
we try to distract ourselves.
In the First
Reading from Scripture at Mass today, St. Paul urged the Philippians
not to set themselves “upon the things of this world,” but instead
to remember “that we have our citizenship in heaven.” And in the
same Mass, Psalm 122 said “I rejoiced when I heard them say: Let
us go to the house of the Lord.” Vanity Fair never satisfies the
heart. It never could and it never will, because we’re more than
obedient consumers. We’re more than economic units with appetites.
We were made for something better. We were made for a different
home.
The road to
that home leads in a different direction -- and for all of us, sooner
or later, it involves suffering. After Pope John Paul II recovered
from the bullet wounds of an assassination attempt in 1981, he wrote
a wonderful meditation, and in it, he called the Bible “God’s great
book about suffering.”
We all fear
suffering. Nobody in his right mind looks for unnecessary suffering
-- but when it comes to us, and when we bear it patiently and give
it over as a glory to God, then suffering becomes an act of creation
and freedom. Then it joins us to Christ’s suffering in His redemption
of the world. And that’s what the great Jewish Christian writer
Leon Bloy meant when he wrote that, “man has places in his heart
which do not yet exist, and into them enters suffering, in order
that they may have existence.” Suffering is the chisel God uses
to hammer us free from the sin and mediocrity and distractions we
crust ourselves in.
Christianity
is a religion for realists. It’s not for the weak – or rather,
it’s not for people willing to remain weak. The Church calendar
reminds us every November to reflect upon the Four Last Things:
death, judgment, hell and heaven. Every one of us in this room
tonight will experience three of those Four Last Things sooner or
later -- and probably sooner than we’d like. In the light of eternity,
we have so little time in this world. We need to use it well.
We need to make it count. We need to have just a little courage
-- the courage to trust God enough to live the Gospel well in our
own lives, so that our lives become a witness and a source of hope
for others.
C.S. Lewis
once said that, “There are no ordinary people. You have never talked
to a mere mortal. Nations, cultures, arts, civilization – these
are mortal, and their life is to ours as the life of a gnat. But
it is immortals whom we joke with, work with, marry, snub and exploit
. . . [and] all day long we are, in some degree, helping each other
to one or another of these destinations” -- eternal life, or its
alternative.
Christianity
is a religion for realists, because what we do – or don’t do --
matters. Not just here and now, but forever. And not just for
ourselves, but for every life we influence, and for the world in
which we live.
In every marriage,
in every family, in every friendship, a moment comes when the person
we love says, “If you love me, act like it; if you love me,
prove it by your trust.” Why would God, the greatest Lover
in history, be any different? A reporter once asked Mother Teresa
the secret of her success. She answered that she wasn’t called
to succeed, but only to try. Results were God’s business.
Success was God’s business. Trying was her business.
She wasn’t called to find big solutions to poverty -- but only to
live the little solution of personal love that would become a good
infection in the hearts of other people and “something beautiful
for God.”
This needs
to be the spirit of everything Emmaus Ministries does. Don’t ever
doubt the fruitfulness of your work. You’re doing something extraordinary
here, something that takes courage and hope, something beautiful
for God. If you turn one man to the Lord, that’s one man who will
see the face of God forever. And so your “labor in the Lord is
not in vain,” no matter how many disappointments or failures
come along with it.
And don’t ever
underestimate the witness and power of Christians from different
traditions working together. The issues of faith that divide us
are important, and we should never diminish them -- but we always
need to judge them in the context of the love of Jesus Christ we
share. We’re brothers and sisters in the same Lord, and when we
act like it, God can act through us to change the world. Christian
unity isn’t a structure we can build from the outside. We need
to live it from the inside first, through the discipleship we share
-- and we can trust that God will handle the rest in His own good
time.
I began with
a story about my friend Therese, and I want to finish that story
as I close.
Catholics
have always had a love for the rosary as a special form of prayer.
It’s a Marian prayer, but it’s based on Scripture and moments in
the life of Christ and His mother. Last month the Holy Father revised
the rosary for the first time in many years to include more reflections
on the public ministry of Jesus. So Therese and her husband decided
to try to pray one decade of the rosary every night. And their
son Andy, the young boy with Down syndrome, sat with them and followed
along silently on his own beads.
On the second
night, Therese turned to her son. She asked him if he’d like to
lead the prayers. And he did -- one syllable at a time, one prayer
at a time, for all 10 Hail Marys. She told me that she only understood
about half of what Andy said, but he knew what he was saying,
and he was enormously proud of saying it -- and in his happiness,
she could very clearly understand every syllable of what
God was telling her through him: “I am with you always, to the close
of the age.”
So what’s the
lesson for the rest of us?
Have courage.
Have hope. And know that our labor in the Lord is not in vain.
It’s never in vain. God bless you.
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